Ya, they can just grab from a different dealer. So find the dealer that gives you the deal you want and ask for all the stuff you want. If the car doesn't have something you want they can install it(hfp wheels of example and most dealers can have it tinted also).
Mine was like 600+ miles away...
Did you know you can ask for it, my dealer didn't have one, took 1 day to get it there. I was there when the tech did the pdi on it, of course I got him lunch so I wouldn't be to much of a bother. I'm just super anal about any little issue.
I agree fully, I grabbed my 13 right before the 14 were on lots for less then 20k brand new. Also most people that get si's do beat on them at least a little.