Look at the pics above. The spokes on the 8" are convex, at 9" the wheel looks concave and has a lip. It totally changes the look of the wheel.
Low depends on you and how much work you're willing to do. Quite honestly I don't like the look of the RPF-1 in anything but x9.
How low do you wanna go? Coilovers will allow you to go the lowest and are adjustable. Cheap coilovers are just that though, cheap. Ride quality will suffer. Good coilovers are $$. You could always go strut/spring combo but then you would have whatever drop you have chosen. Lowering past 1.5" will need camber kit F & R to get things back in spec.
(This is personal opinion here, do what you want.)
I don't like the idea of running extremely stretched tires. If you are sticking with the stock tires, get a wheel in 7.5" wide. I run 225/45 tires on my 7.5" and could go to an 8." I would not run a 215 on an 8" or 8.5" or a 9" but some people do. Understand that running a stretched tire will compromise performance, tire life, ride quality, I think it quite unsafe, and you can get a blowout much much easier from hitting potholes.
Also the offset of the wheel will play a major role in low/flush/rubbing/need fender work. That said...
1) What is your budget for wheels and suspension?
2) What wheel are you probably going to go with? The RPF1?
3) How much drop are you looking for?
4) How flush are you trying to get your wheels?
5) What are you looking to get out of your wheel/tire combo?
If you are going to get the RPF1 for looks, I'd say get the 17x9 +35. Run the stock tires if you must. Other people have done it. You may not like it.
Strictly performance? 17x8 and get a 235/40 Dunlop Direzza Star Spec Z1 tire.