got a quick scenario for you women to think on:
im walking around the mall with a buddy, see a cute girl (scenario purposes its you). your with a friend too and i try to follow you to ask you out. (im pretty shy and i dont like it when other people are there when i ask people out because i believe it tends to put pressure on the girl and "forces" them to say yes) I go up to you and say "hi my name is ranier, i walked past you a bit ago and i thought you were really cute, i was hoping i could get your number and possibly go out sometime, maybe grab some dinner"
(say your single) how would you go about this? blow me off because its weird that a random guy came up to you? lie and say you have a boyfriend? be open minded and at least give the number?
ive only gone out with a couple girls and they were through mutual friends. im sure im not the only guy that sees an attractive girl and does nothing about it. i feel like changing my life a bit and going for what i want. wanted a perspective from women that arent my friends and want the truth